When the Taoist sage Zhuangzi (the Perfected Man of Nanhua) faced the passing of his wife, he was found drumming on a basin and singing.
Many were bewildered: "It is one thing not to weep when your wife dies, but how can you sing?"
In truth, this was not cold-heartedness. It was based on a profound insight into the very essence of existence: Human life and death are like the progression of the four seasons or the alternation of day and night. They are natural phenomena within the cosmic order. Spring, summer, autumn, and winter all have their appointed times. Thus, Zhuangzi used a song to bid farewell to his wife, refusing to drown in sorrow.
He viewed passing away simply as a return from the form of "life" to another state of existence—resting peacefully in the order of time and surrendering to the flow of change.
In this way, the heart becomes like a clear mirror reflecting all things. You respond to events as they arrive, and you let them go entirely as they pass. By embracing this, you will find true freedom, tranquility, and ease within a world that never stops changing.
